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		<title>Gentle Way to Release Recurring Fears and Painful Thoughts With the Full Moon</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Dec 2019 13:11:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Did You See the Full Moon? 🌕If you caught glimpses of the moon growing fuller each night, you know how breathtaking it can be. I recently had the honor (and trepidation!) of a midnight swim under the full moon in a little fishing village in Sweden.&#160;Why trepidation? Because for years, I was afraid of the [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="thrv_wrapper tve_wp_shortcode"><div class="tve_shortcode_raw" style="display: none"></div><div class="tve_shortcode_rendered"><h5><strong>Did You See the Full Moon?</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f315.png" alt="🌕" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></h5><p>If you caught glimpses of the moon growing fuller each night, you know how breathtaking it can be. I recently had the honor (and trepidation!) of a midnight swim under the full moon in a little fishing village in Sweden.</p><p>Why trepidation? Because for years, I was <strong>afraid of the dark</strong>.</p><p>But I’ve been working steadily to overcome this fear, and that night, I took a deep breath and dove into the freezing, moonlit darkness. I didn’t tell anyone how monumental that moment was for me—but it was a huge step in confronting and releasing a recurring fear.</p><h5><strong>Why Do Full Moons Stir Up Our Fears?</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f315.png" alt="🌕" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></h5><p>Full moons have a way of <strong>bringing darkness to light</strong>. They illuminate the things we’d rather avoid—hidden fears, painful thoughts, or unresolved emotions. This process can feel uncomfortable or even frightening.</p><p>But here’s the paradox:<br /><strong>The quickest way to let go of these feelings is to move through them.</strong></p><p>When you embrace the feeling, you allow it to pass. You release its grip on your mind, heart, and body. And while this can be challenging to do alone, the <strong>Natural Alchemy method</strong> can help. This approach offers a safe space for exploring and healing those dark, hidden corners of your psyche.</p><h5><strong>Why Can’t We Just “Let Go” of Fear?</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f914.png" alt="🤔" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></h5><p>Letting go isn’t always easy. Questions like these might spin in your mind:</p><ul><li>“How can I let go when I’m still hurting?”</li><li>“Am I supposed to just forget everything?”</li><li>“Will I be a doormat if I let this go?”</li></ul><p>Instead of trying to force yourself to let go, try shifting to a mindset of <strong>willingness</strong>.</p><h3><strong>Why Willingness Matters</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/26a1.png" alt="⚡" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></h3><p>Every negative habit or thought you experience exists because, on some level, your brain believes it’s protecting you. Over time, this fear or pain becomes a <strong>habitual response</strong>. Your brain has logged it as important information, even if it no longer serves you.</p><p>Your brain isn’t wrong—it’s just trying to keep you safe. But now it’s time to <strong>rewrite those neural pathways</strong> and create new patterns.</p><h3><strong><br />Affirmations to Release Recurring Fear</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f4dd.png" alt="📝" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></h3><p>Choose one of the following statements and repeat it daily:</p><ul><li><strong>I am willing to release the need to feel (this way about my partner).<br /><br /></strong></li><li><strong>I am willing to release the need to feel (the need to control this situation).<br /><br /></strong></li><li><strong>I am willing to release the need to feel (broke).<br /><br /></strong></li><li><strong>I am willing to release the need to feel (ugly).<br /><br /></strong></li><li><strong>I am willing to release the need to feel (rejected).<br /><br /></strong></li><li><strong>I am willing to release the need to feel (anxious about my finances).</strong></li></ul><h5><strong><br />A Simple Action Step to Start Letting Go</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f9d8-200d-2640-fe0f.png" alt="🧘‍♀️" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></h5><p>Try this exercise for one week:</p><ol><li><strong>Lie down on the floor, a yoga mat, or your bed.</strong></li><li><strong>Play 3 calming songs</strong> and breathe deeply.</li><li><strong>Place one hand on your belly</strong> and the other on your chest.</li><li><strong>Breathe in for 4 counts and out for 4 counts; breathing space into these areas</strong> and let thoughts come and go.</li><li><strong>Repeat your chosen affirmation.</strong></li></ol><p>This simple practice helps calm your nervous system, reconnect with your body, and begin releasing old fears.</p><h5><strong>Journal Prompts to Support Your Journey</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f4d3.png" alt="📓" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></h5><ol><li><strong>What’s been frustrating, annoying, or hurting you this week?</strong></li><li><strong>Are you willing to release the need for this pain in your life?</strong></li><li><strong>Write your chosen affirmation and repeat it daily.</strong></li></ol><h3> </h3><p><strong>Need Extra Support?</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f49b.png" alt="💛" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p><p>If you’re ready to dive deeper and release these fears, join a <strong>Homebody Yoga class</strong>. Our sessions are designed to help you reconnect, restore, and create lasting change.</p><p><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f449.png" alt="👉" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong><a href="#" rel="noopener">Book a Class and Start Letting Go</a></strong></p><p><strong>Remember:</strong> You have the power to release what no longer serves you. The moon may light up your shadows, but you have the strength to face them and move forward.</p><p><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2728.png" alt="✨" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>Here’s to releasing, healing, and growing!</strong> <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f315.png" alt="🌕" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f49b.png" alt="💛" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p></div></div><div class="tcb_flag" style="display: none"></div>
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		<title>Reclaim Your Inner Calm: A Simple Daily Practice to Reconnect with Yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Nov 2019 11:52:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>You Are Not Broken — You Just Need to ReconnectYou know when something&#8217;s off, something is off. &#160;Just like when you know something is right, it&#8217;s RIGHT. &#160;You have a knowing deep within you. It’s more than intuition. It’s an innate, divine intelligence that integrates your mind, body, heart, and spirit. You are never without it, but [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="thrv_wrapper tve_wp_shortcode"><div class="tve_shortcode_raw" style="display: none"></div><div class="tve_shortcode_rendered"><h5><strong>You Are Not Broken — You Just Need to Reconnect</strong></h5><p>You know when something&#8217;s off, something is off. </p><p>Just like when you know something is right, it&#8217;s RIGHT. </p><p>You have a knowing deep within you. It’s more than intuition. It’s an innate, divine intelligence that integrates your mind, body, heart, and spirit. You are never without it, but sometimes, life makes it difficult to hear, follow, or trust your inner wisdom.</p><h5><strong>Why Do We Lose Touch with Our Inner Knowing?</strong></h5><p>We live in a world that conditions us to:</p><ul><li><strong>Doubt ourselves</strong></li><li><strong>Prioritize doing over being</strong></li><li><strong>Push through exhaustion and overwhelm</strong></li><li><strong>Suppress our emotions </strong></li><li><strong>Mess with our natural chemistry</strong></li></ul><p>These societal norms, personal challenges, and past experiences can leave us feeling:</p><ul><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f629.png" alt="😩" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>Overwhelmed</strong> and anxious</li><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1fae0.png" alt="🫠" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>Disconnected</strong> from ourselves</li><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f4a4.png" alt="💤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>Exhausted</strong> and unmotivated</li><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f62c.png" alt="😬" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>Stuck</strong> in patterns of worry and self-doubt</li></ul><p>But <strong>what if you’re not broken and don’t need to be fixed</strong>? <br />What if all you need is to reconnect with yourself, your body, and your innate divinity?</p><h5><strong>A Simple Practice to Reconnect</strong></h5><p>Here’s a gentle, easy-to-integrate practice that can help you reconnect with yourself. It’s simple, but the results are profound.</p><h5><strong>The 3-Song Reset</strong></h5><p>For the next week, commit to this practice at least once:</p><ol><li><strong>Lie down</strong> on the floor, a yoga mat, or your bed.</li><li><strong>Play 3 of your favorite songs</strong> — ones that make you feel calm, reflective, or joyful.</li><li><strong>Breathe deeply</strong> counting to 4 on inhale and counting 4 on exhale.</li><li><strong>Place one hand on your belly</strong> and one on your chest. (If you come to <a href="https://heidilidholm.com/homebody-online-yoga/">Homebody yoga class</a> you&#8217;ll know this breathing technique; we do it at the beginning of most classes). </li><li><strong>Stay present</strong> and allow whatever thoughts or feelings arise to flow and go.</li></ol><p>Sounds simple, right? So simple that you might think it’s pointless. But believe me — there are gifts waiting for you in this practice.</p><p><strong>Bonus points:</strong> have your journal or paper and pen beside you and allow yourself to write what comes through you without censorship and judgement.</p><h5><strong>Why This Practice Works</strong></h5><p>When you lie down, breathe, and listen, here’s what happens:</p><ul><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f9d8-200d-2640-fe0f.png" alt="🧘‍♀️" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>You calm your nervous system.</strong> <br />If you’re constantly in fight-or-flight mode, this practice helps you shift to rest-and-digest mode.<br /><br /></li><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2764.png" alt="❤" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>You reconnect with your body.</strong> Placing your hands on your belly and chest brings a sense of awareness and safety.<br /><br /></li><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f60c.png" alt="😌" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>You release pent-up emotions.</strong> Tears might flow, or tension might dissolve. Let it happen — this is healing.<br /><br /></li><li><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f4ad.png" alt="💭" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>You gain clarity.</strong> Solutions, ideas, and insights often arise when you give yourself space to breathe.</li></ul><h5><strong>My Story: From Burnout to Balance</strong></h5><p>When I started practicing yoga in 2013, my life ran on adrenaline. I was always <strong>go-go-go</strong>, taking on more than I could manage, rushing through tasks, and crashing into exhaustion.</p><p>In every class, I’d fall asleep during <strong>savasana</strong> (the final resting pose). My body was crying out for rest, but I wasn’t listening.</p><p>Eventually, I made a rule: if I fell asleep in savasana, I’d skip the next class and <strong>take a nap instead</strong>. My body needed rest more than it needed another workout.</p><p>That simple commitment to <strong>listening to my body</strong> changed everything. I realized there was another way to live — one that didn’t involve constant tension and burnout.</p><h5><strong>How to Stay Present During the 3-Song Reset</strong></h5><p>Your mind might try to hijack the experience with thoughts like:</p><ul><li>“You’re wasting time.”</li><li>“You have too much to do.”</li><li>“This won’t help.”</li></ul><p>Stay with your breath. Stay with the music. Remind yourself: <strong>It’s just 3 songs.</strong></p><p><strong>Repeat to yourself:</strong></p><ul><li>I can stay here for 3 songs.</li><li>I can give this to myself.</li><li>I can breathe with myself.</li></ul><h5><strong>Ready to Reconnect with Your Inner Wisdom?</strong></h5><p><strong>Start today.</strong> Lie down, press play, and breathe. This simple practice can help you break old habits of stress, worry, and self-doubt — and reconnect with the calm, wise, powerful you.</p><p><strong>Remember:</strong> You are not a problem to be fixed. You are a beautiful being with an infinite intelligence within you. It’s time to tap back into your power.</p><p><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f33f.png" alt="🌿" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <strong>Make this your priority this week. Your body, mind, and spirit will thank you.</strong></p><h5 class=""><strong>Need to Recharge? Homebody Yoga Is Here for You </strong><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f9d8-200d-2640-fe0f.png" alt="🧘‍♀️" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> </h5><p>If you’re ready to:</p><ul class=""><li>Ground your energy.</li><li>Release stress and overwhelm.</li><li>Fill your cup so you can give from a place of vitality, abundance and strength.</li></ul><p><a href="https://heidilidholm.com/homebody-online-yoga/">Join <strong>Homebody Yoga</strong> every Tuesday and Thursday</a> — designed to help you feel relaxed and strong.</p><p><strong>Live Classes:</strong> Tuesdays &amp; Thursdays, Full Moon Restorative, New Moon Restorative <br /><strong>Where:</strong> Online on Zoom (Replay available for 7 days)<br /><strong>Bonus:</strong> Each class comes with an acupressure guide to deepen your practice.</p><h6 class=""><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/2728.png" alt="✨" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /> <em>Your intuition — will thank you.</em></h6></div></div><div class="tcb_flag" style="display: none"></div>
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		<title>Get to Know Yourself:  11 Journal Prompts 😍 for Self-Discovery</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Nov 2019 21:38:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;re stuck, confused or overwhelmed, discover how journaling can help you get to know yourself with these 11 best journal prompts for self-discovery. Whether you prefer to call it &#8220;Strategic Thinking&#8221; or &#8220;Journalling,&#8221; the act of putting pen to paper brings immense benefits to your life especially when it comes to getting to know [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;re stuck, confused or overwhelmed, discover how journaling can help you get to know yourself with these 11 best journal prompts for self-discovery.</p>
<p>Whether you prefer to call it &#8220;Strategic Thinking&#8221; or &#8220;Journalling,&#8221; the act of putting pen to paper brings immense benefits to your life especially when it comes to getting to know yourself, personal development, manifestation  and self-healing.</p>
<p>Journaling has become the cornerstone to my inner peace because it helps me understand myself, cut through the noise of my inner critic and bring awareness and appreciation to who I am and what I want to achieve.</p>
<p>I can assure you with conviction that this act of self-reflection via the practice of &#8220;journaling&#8221; ignites clarity, connection, and self-awareness.</p>
<p>In this blog post I wanted to pull together some bulletproof-use-anytime-anywhere to get unstuck questions. Journalling doesn&#8217;t always have to take forever or sort out all your problems, sometimes, it&#8217;s a shift in focus and self appreciation is all we need to get ourselves back on the feel good track. So definitely, save this page and anytime you feel stuck, pick one of these 11 journal prompts for self discovery so you can easily explore you thoughts, emotions, and goals with intention and purpose.</p>
<h2>When to use Journal Prompts for Self-Discovery?</h2>
<p>Use these powerful prompts to ignite clarity and purpose any day or time!<br />
Answering these 11 powerful questions will help you reconnect with yourself, gain valuable insights, and refocus on what truly matters to you &#8211; ESPECIALLY,</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re feeling;</p>
<ul>
<li>stuck in repetitive anxious thoughts</li>
<li>lost or lacking purpose</li>
<li>unclear of which direction to take</li>
<li>ungrounded</li>
<li>you want to find clarity
<p>then, grab a pen and paper (or notion document) &#8211; with these journal prompts, you&#8217;re about to change the trajectory of your day, week, maybe your year!</li>
</ul>
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<h5>Start now!</h5>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f60d.png" alt="😍" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" />11 Journal Prompts for self-discovery</h2>
<blockquote><p>Choose a number between 1 and 11 and start with the journal prompt below with that number:</p></blockquote>
<p>1. Who was the last person you said &#8220;Thank You&#8221; to and why?</p>
<p>2. Write out 3 accomplishments you achieved in the last 7 days.<br />
What&#8217;s the best aspect/result from these accomplishments? What did you learn? Would you improve or change anything about the 3 accomplishments?</p>
<p>4. What was your best, best, BEST day in the past 4 weeks? Why? How did it happen? How can happen it again?</p>
<p>4. What was your favourite (one of your favourite) songs from your childhood? Why? What images, emotions, memories, colours, smells do this bring up for you?</p>
<p>5. If you could be invisible for 3 hours where would you go and why?</p>
<p>6. What is something that surprised you in the last 14 days?</p>
<p>7. What&#8217;s going RIGHT at the moment? (Can be many things/situations)</p>
<p>8. What&#8217;s the number 1 lesson you would give your daughter? your son?<br />
Are they different lessons? Why?</p>
<p>9. What was the BIGGEST LESSON that you learned from the last book that you read?</p>
<p>10. List 3 of your favorite relationships in your life at the moment &#8211; what makes them meaningful, what do you enjoy, what makes the relationship great?</p>
<p>11. What activities give you energy? Why do you enjoy them? How often do you these activities? How <strong><em>could</em></strong> you prioritise this activity more during the week?</p>
<p>How awesome that it only takes a pen, paper, and a few moments of self-reflection to explore your inner world and reconnect with yourself.</p>
<p>Save this blog post &#8211; and come back to every morning for 11 days or anytime that you&#8217;re spinning your wheels and need insights, clarity and reconnection with who you.</p>
<p>Remember, only you see, feel and experience life the way you do &#8211; your perspective and your life is important and necessary in this world. Keep understanding yourself and evolving the best of yourself &#8211; because the best is yet to come!</p>
<p>We are here to support you on your journey of self-discovery and growth.</p>
<p>To supporting your journey of self-discovery and growth,</p>
<p>Heidi</p>
<blockquote><p>P.S. If you need additional support in pursuing your desires and navigating life transitions, consider booking a Natural Alchemy session with Heidi.</p></blockquote>
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<h5><em>What&#8217;s the best that can happen?</em></h5>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Hi beautiful, Morning routines have become a hot topic and &#8220;must&#8221; on the self care checklist. Fantastic! We&#8217;ve all heard about the benefits of a routine such as greater productivity and effectiveness. Crucial! BUT&#8230; I&#8217;d like to take you deeper&#8230; I believe a morning routine is the cornerstone to loving yourself. &#160; Yup, mornings are [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>Hi beautiful,</p>
<p>Morning routines have become a hot topic and &#8220;must&#8221; on the self care checklist.</p>
<p>Fantastic! We&#8217;ve all heard about the benefits of a routine such as greater productivity and effectiveness. Crucial! BUT&#8230; <strong>I&#8217;d like to take you deeper&#8230;<br />
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</strong>I believe a morning routine is the cornerstone to loving yourself.</p></blockquote>
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<p>Yup, mornings are about loving YOU!</p>
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<div>How?</div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>YOUR MORNING ROUTINE IS YOUR FIRST OPPORTUNITY TO BE KIND TO YOURSELF.</strong></h3>
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<div>It&#8217;s your <strong>first opportunity to set how you want to feel during the day</strong>,</div>
<div>and <strong>therefore you set how the energy momentum and action and even the tone of your conversations</strong> can (and will) unfold throughout your entire day. Remember, if like me (and Einstein), you believe in universal law, <strong>likes attracts like, what you put out (how you feel), you will get back (what you experience).</strong></div>
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<div>It&#8217;s basically, your first chance to tell yourself and the world you live in</div>
<ul>
<li>how important you are,</li>
<li>what you deserve and</li>
<li>what you are open to receive&#8230; cough cough [reminder]&#8230;<span> your morning routine<strong> is</strong></span><strong> your first chance to give yourself love and receive love.</strong></li>
</ul>
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<div>So in my Natural Alchemy world,<span> </span><strong>morning routines are NOT about adding ANOTHER thing to your list. </strong></div>
<div>Nope.</div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Morning routine is about GIVING TO YOURSELF FIRST.</strong></h3>
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<div style="text-align: center;">AKA in Natural Alchemy, your morning routine is about HONOURING YOURSELF.</div>
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<div>Let&#8217;s get honest for a second&#8230;</div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>HOW DO YOU BEGIN YOUR DAY?</strong></h3>
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<ul>
<li>Do you hit snooze 4 times?</li>
<li>Do you wake up in worry thoughts listing out all that you have to do? AND more specifically, listing out what you have NOT done?</li>
<li>Jump out of bed, moving so fast, you&#8217;re already in the bathroom before you&#8217;re fully awake?</li>
<li>Are you exhausted and sleepy and grumpy, even after you wake up?</li>
</ul>
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<div>While I am partial to hitting the snooze button (I am not here to be perfect or pretend that I am)&#8230;</div>
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<div>it&#8217;s the morning&#8217;s <strong>that I don&#8217;t hit snooze</strong>, and</div>
<ul>
<li>I put on music immediately, and<span> </span></li>
<li><span>leave my phone on airplane mode</span><span> </span></li>
</ul>
<p>that I&#8217;m finding that <strong>I&#8217;m more productive, more present, more pro-active on giving to myself throughout the day</strong> (aka loving myself).</p>
<p>Equally, I find that I&#8217;m taking work curveballs and people&#8217;s reactions less personally. That might be the part I&#8217;m enjoying the most!</p>
<p>For instance, from practising &#8220;self-prioritisation&#8221; every morning for 22 months now, I can concretely report that <strong>my morning routine is having a positive domino effect</strong> on my</p>
<ul>
<li>productivity,</li>
<li>creative work,</li>
<li>relationships,</li>
<li>decision making, and</li>
<li>my body.</li>
</ul>
<p><span>Therefore, I&#8217;m more anchored in myself.</span></p>
<p>Because this internal anchor of &#8220;I&#8217;M MOST IMPORTANT&#8221; / &#8220;I TAKE CARE OF ME FIRST&#8221;,<br />
I can return to this well of SELF HONOUR with greater and greater ease throughout the day.</p>
<p>As you can see,<strong> my morning routine really does set in motion, the momentum of self importance.</strong></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">HERE ARE THE MUSTS OF MY OWN MORNING ROUTINE</h3>
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<p>1. Put on music first thing in bed and wiggle around stretching and waking up in my body</p>
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<p>2. I go through phases according to what my body requires either LEMON IN WARM WATER in the morning or CLAY in water. Perhaps either of these will contain an essential oil to support my body needs that morning, of which I&#8217;ll intuitively select.</p>
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<p>3. I put on a face mask or an enriching cream or serum while I put on my stove top espresso maker.</p>
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<p>5. More music while I stretch or move my body.</p>
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<p>6. I do my &#8220;morning pages&#8221; a practice I adopted from &#8220;The Artists Way&#8221; which includes writing my current affirmation that I&#8217;m focusing on embodying.</p>
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<p>7. I sit and meditate for 20 &#8211; 40 minutes.</p>
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<div>8. I eat a nourishing breakfast and listen to one of my favourite authors, then review my tasks/projects/objectives for the day.</div>
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<div>Of course these are ALL important MUSTS for me and <strong>they don&#8217;t always happen in that order BUT they ALWAYS happen every morning.</strong></div>
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<div>For example, some mornings, I feel the urge to meditate first and some mornings I might write first thing when I wake up. As rules can be seem restrictive for me, I allow myself flexibility in choosing what I feel like with the KNOWING AND COMMITMENT that all must be done. And to be honest, at this stage, these 8 principals have become as second nature as going to the toilet. Not doing one, feels like walking around with only 1 shoe on for the rest of the day!</div>
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<div>Now, over to you HOW CAN YOU set an even stronger foundation for increased productivity, presence and positive experiences&#8230; and most importantly SELF HONOUR?</div>
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<h4>Below I offer the foundations that are IMPERATIVE for integrating a consistent morning routine&#8230;</h4>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">HOW TO CREATE A MORNING ROUTINE:<br />
THE 3 CORE FOUNDATIONS</h3>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">1. It&#8217;s about you <strong>HONOURING yourself</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span><span><br />
2. Your morning routine <strong>begins the NIGHT before</strong></span></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">3. <strong>You set the tone of the day with your awakening THOUGHTS</strong></p>
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<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Now, let&#8217;s dive in deeper into each of these core foundation steps:</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<div>
<div>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>1. IT&#8217;S ABOUT HONOURING YOURSELF </strong></h3>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Beautiful, this is your life. Why would you not create the best experience for yourself?</p>
<p>On two mornings this week, the 9th thing I did (after my routine list) I had a bath! (This high level of bath in the morning &#8220;self honour&#8221; has been 4 years in the making!!) What may be even more astounding about that, they have been <strong>my most productive, most creative, most decisive days of the week.</strong> This morning, I was resisting the bath&#8230; listing out all the reasons <em>why there wasn&#8217;t enough time, I wouldn&#8217;t be able to relax, it would take too much time&#8230;</em> but here&#8217;s the breakthrough&#8230; as soon as I committed to the bath (committed to giving to myself FIRST) and started running the water, time expanded. My morning rendez-vous asked could I meet them an hour later, so then i got to my journalling and meditating and breakfast after bath, zero rush, fully anchored in ME.</p>
<p>Could you take a few moments to</p>
<ul>
<li><span>listen to a song and visualize you achieving your current #1 goal</span></li>
<li>listen to a song and strech in bed</li>
<li>repeat your current #1 affirmation</li>
<li>review your agenda for the day and ask each event what&#8217;s the best that can happen?</li>
<li>sit up and meditate for 2 minutes</li>
<li>not turn off airplane mode until you have had your cup of tea, then stretch that to until your dressed, then strech that until your out of your home?</li>
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<p style="text-align: center;">How can you HONOUR YOURSELF FIRST in the morning?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>List out your JUST FOR YOU morning routine.</strong></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>2. YOUR MORNING ROUTINE BEGINS THE NIGHT BEFORE</strong></h3>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>There is absolutely no point in conceiving any more (we&#8217;ve all thought about improving) morning routine thoughts,<strong> if you are not going to set up some loving disciplines in the evening. </strong></p>
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<div><span>How about&#8230; </span></div>
<div>
<ul>
<li><span>going to bed 1 hour earlier? </span></li>
<li><span>taking a night time tea into bed and listening to music as sip slowly?</span></li>
<li><span>putting your feet into a basin with baking soda? (you can add all fancy oils and salts, but baking soda is all you need to alkalise your feet and get yourself out of your head and out of your day). </span></li>
<li><span>making your bed a no-phone-zone. </span></li>
<li><span>listen to music, write, sew, read, stretch, meditate, breath, sip tea, listen to a podcast (put phone on airplane mode is acceptable).</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span><br />
<strong>Let the resistance (because there will be resistance) begin in the evening and tackle it, head on the evening.</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span>How can you HONOUR YOURSELF before you sleep?</span></p>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><span>Choose one BEDTIME COMMITMENT to kickstart your morning routine. </span></div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>3. YOU SET THE TONE OF THE DAY WITH YOUR WAKING THOUGHTS</strong></h3>
<blockquote><p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>How you speak to yourself is the how you experience your life.</p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>If you want to heal and create effectively in your life and in alignment with what you want,</strong> it&#8217;s best to become the commander, the officer in chief of your thoughts. A nice way to anchor into this habit, is to become aware of how you speak to yourself before you sleep and when you wake.</p>
<p>And naturally, <strong>you set the tone with your awakening thoughts, with your final thoughts THE NIGHT BEFORE</strong>. I have started a night-before-practise of reviewing the day (in my head) and thanking my conversations, tasks completed, encounters, trip ups and triumphs. Feeling gratitude for all that I learnt and experienced in the day. And releasing people&#8217;s energy from our connections during the day. I find the nights I can&#8217;t fall asleep with ease, it&#8217;s because my energy is stuck in the past entangled with someone from earlier in the day.</p>
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<p><span>And in the morning, I begin with gratitude and tell myself </span></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>&#8220;I love you, let&#8217;s do this! What&#8217;s the BEST that can happen today??&#8221;</strong></h3>
<p><span>As I put on a tune and start to lazily but wakingly stretch my body around my bed. </span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I guess what I&#8217;m really trying to hit home here (and honour my own practise more) is that this time for myself, with myself, is SACRED and it&#8217;s limited, not only on a daily, hourly basis, but in this lifetime!</p>
<p>My time in this body is limited. And so I&#8217;ve started to reflect and ACTION on all the ways I can HONOUR MYSELF myself (SELF HONOUR is the cornerstone of Natural Alchemy Method.)</p>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Showing up for myself begins with the smallest of steps. </strong></div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Honouring myself begins with the smallest steps. </strong></div>
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<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Loving myself begins with the smallest of steps. </strong></div>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Receiving greater abundance begins with the smallest of steps.</strong></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;">COMMIT TO GREATER SELF HONOUR NOW:</h3>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>1. Update your bedtime activity<br />
2. Upgrade your morning with HONOURING YOURSELF<br />
3. Elevate your day with appreciation and affirmation, last thing at night and first thing in the morning.</p>
<p>Are you willing?<br />
Are you ready?</p>
<p>Set&#8230;</p>
<p>Start tonight!</p>
<p>Let me know what YOUR MORNING ROUTINE is in the comments below.</p>
<p>To supporting you,<br />
Heidi</p>
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